I made friends with sorrowFor I feel what everyone is hidingThe world has an endless supplySo I had to make peace with it I have not made friends with angerFor I learned that it can hurtSo I forbade myself from feeling itAnd am now facing the consequence What value is …
I used to think that anger is evil. A good, moral person doesn’t get mad at other people, I thought. If I am mad then there is something wrong with me. A moral thing to do is to forgive and forget. Well, there is a catch to that. Forgiving is …
So continuing on yesterday’s post, the best practice is to feel whatever “negative” emotion you have first, and then steer it toward a more desirable outlook. That’s easier said than done. Yesterday I had an incident where I got very mad. Except I realized that I can’t get 100% mad. …
Complaining is commonly considered a negative act to be avoided, and for the most part, I agree. However, if the choice was between complaining and bottling up your hurt inside, then complaining is definitely the lesser of two evils. Below, let me tell you how I use complaining to let …